Why a girl is raped?
Because they are believed to be God and treated like the same
Let that sink in for a second…in our diverse cultural world with moral, ethical and religious backgrounds . A man is educated and influenced psychologically to believe that “god is a woman “
“A woman is a healer “
“A women forgives “
this very man firmly believes in this one story for his entire life but when he walks into the real world, multiple questions arises in his mind. Questions and queries regarding ethics ,morals and everything a social law can emphasis on a man .
Now when he has an encounter with a woman, goes out on a date, gets to learn more about her and he finally falls for her. If things take an unfortunate turn, he also encounters the fact that he chose the wrong person. Because she might have cheated on him, conned him, left him for another guy and it goes on…
This might happen all over again in the future with him and many other men like him going through infidelity from the same kind of girls/ women.
Now look at it from a general point of view . These very men who were taught to believe and treat a woman like a god or a godess and have been psychologically educated to put her on a pedestal , got betrayal from the same women which a god will never do
What was God’s job?
Luther would say that God’s proper work is to bring alive, to heal, to show mercy and to forgive, not on the basis of our own merit but on the basis of Christ’s merit alone. Such responsibilities align with God because they reflect his very nature, for the Scripture says that God is love.
So now what ? We all know that nobody is a god .This very general perception changes to – this woman is not a god , she’s a whore from hell , shes nasty , shes a cheat, she deserves to get punished!
This state of mind gives birth to a rapist inside this man .
He grows up gets stronger and the vicinity in which he grew up has only taught him that a “woman is a whore (slave) ”
These thoughts get triggered from the core and feeds on hatred , betrayal and revenge.
Interestingly enough , all of this is happening subconsciously, the man is mostly unaware of this monsters existence. He grows stronger and smarter waiting for that perfect opportunity to strike . Since rape is also an animal instinct, and rapists in a social world will never strike in a crowd. These instinctive behaviours pushing man towards sadistic feelings mixed with the hatred and given the perfect environmental opportunity to strike ,is the best time for the state of mind to show streaks of animosity.
Looking for a partner of opposite sex is the law of nature. The mind which has adapted to its Lineage now can only show signs of vindictive behaviour. And he/they-rapes . After all, the drive of that motive was hatred , and hatred has no boundaries. We can hate people because of their skin colour , for their cast for their religion and for any other reasons.
It is in the very beginning of familial understanding as to why a rapist is build in the first place. You want to control and harness forces beyond your understanding, to which you haven’t even disciplined yourself to gain it, you read and get inspired by what others did and what others told you to do.
We feed our children with lies and stories.
“ everything we ever heard was a lie
Everything we ever believed was a story
We are all in, just looking for an answer to complete our symphony “
And we like to keep it that way , I am sure the system has its reasons to not show the ugly side but , we have good reasons to show them too. One of them is to stop rape.
We never show them the ugly side . And we try our very best to keep it that way without realising and understanding about the fact that nature doesn’t work like that . A star is born in the midst of chaos .
We live in an ugly world, don’t hide it from your children. Make them aware and educate them about it .
Teach your children about the real meaning of equality.
Teach them that “ you cant demand love ,respect and money “ just “ because I am a girl “, you earn these things and it has nothing to do with your gender
Life is not a bus where you get reserved seats because you are girl .
Life is ugly yet beautiful, life is cruel yet forgiving
A woman is a part of our lives , “she’s not a god” . She is capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it . If a man can cheat , so can she , if a man can leave so can a she.
Rape is an expression of hatred , nothing less nothing more .